RESPONSIBLE
Didefinisikan :
- ACCOUNTABLE
- Bagaimana performa kita
- Bagaimana kita berperilaku
· DECISION
- etika
- moral
Areas of Responsibility:
· To self à
- Future
Contoh: manusia harus bertanggung jawab terhadap kelangsungan hidupnya
- Studies
Contoh: manusia sudah seharusnya bertanggungjawab terhadap pendidikannya
- Health
Contoh: manusia bertanggungjawab terhadap kesehatannya
· To community à
- Community Development
manusia memiliki tanggungjawab untuk mengembangkan lingkungannya baik dari segi apapun
- Enviroment Protection
manusia bertanggungjawab untuk melindungi lingkungan hidupnya dari apapun
- Social Work
manusia bertanggungjawab untuk bekerja sosial dalam komunitas hidupnya di manapun.
· To family à
- Follow parent’s counsel
manusia memiliki tanggungjawab untuk mematuhi nasihat orangtuanya masing-masing.
- Take part in family concerns
manusia harus bertanggungjawab terhadap segala sesuatu yang berhubungan dengan keluarga pribadinya.
- Preserving peace and unity at home
manusia bertanggungjawab untuk mempertahankan keluarganya agar tetap dalam keadaan damai serta bersatu.
Example that related to responsibility : THE GIFT Story
Inti dari cerita ini adalah bahwa kita sebagai manusia sudah seharusnya bertanggungjawab untuk tetap menghibur sesame manusia walaupun dalam situasi atau kondisi apapun.
DISCIPLINED
Definisi : The ability to put order in any circumstances or anything one does
The Discipline of Focus:
· Anecdote 1 : Coffee and Cup
Inti dari cerita ini adalah bahwa terlalu banyak orang yang fokus pada pekerjaan ataupun harta namun sebenarnya yang terpenting adalah QUALITY OF LIFE. Jika kita dapat bersikap disiplin, kita harus fokus pada kualitas kita pribadi.
“Sometimes, by concentrating only the cup, we fail to enjoy and coffee in it.”
· Anecdote 2 : Student to be famous
Discipline involves:
1.Physical :
- Diet
- Regular Exercise
- Sleeping Habit
- Financial
2.Mental :
- Study Habit
- Time Management
- Focus
· Self-Disciplined :
- Hobby
- Social life – right company “Principle of Mill House”
- Health Recreation
· Financial :
- Principle of need and want
- Personal Budget
Disciplined is one of the best friends of success
PERSEVERANCE
Definisi:
1. The ability to sustain willingness to pursue a task despite difficulties encountered
2. Refuses to give up, keeps on trying in spite of difficulties and problems
Story 1 that related to perseverance : The farmer and the donkey (yang dapat diambil dari cerita ini adalah walaupun di luar
COURAGE & PERSEVERANCE : Story of Nick Vujicic who born without arms and legs but he can touch people’s heart. (yang dapat diambil dari cerita ini adalah tiap orang yang memiliki keinginan kuat dalam dirinya, bagaimanapun keadaannya mimpi tersebut pasti tercapai cepat atau lambat)
INDEPENDENT, CONFIDENT, EXELLENCE
Self-confidence : faith in one’s own abilities, little fear of unknown, stand up for one’s belief, courage to risk embarrassment (setiap orang pada dasarnya memiliki kekuatan dan kelemahannya sendiri, yang ditonjolkan adalah POSITIFNYA)
Haunted by self-deception : focusing on others’, criticism comparing self with others, obsessed by what you lack
Envision yourself: FAILURE : Self-confidence (do this regularly)
Self-criticism :
- Positive self-talk (ex: I feel good today, I will enjoy my lesson to day, I will speak kindly to others today)
- Negative thoughts : Positive thoughts (ex: Today is a beautiful day, I believe good things will happen to me, I will have a fine day in campus)
Story about the cracked pot : Believe you are born a winner
Independent : The quality to stand alone in any circumstances without relying on external support or perception
10% of life is made up of what happens to you and 90% of life is decided by what you react
Focus on your personal vision and goals : Criticism you received:
- What were not true :reject it
- What were true :change yourself
Excellence : the ability to do best according to social norm to yield satisfactory result in a given task or duty, is considered to be a value by many organization in any particular by schools and other institution of education and a goal to be pursued (harus ada fighting spirit)

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